My Mum just randomly sent R a ring that belonged to my Dad's mother. No explanation. I recognized the ring, and I would have dearly loved it. My grandmother died when I was a teenager, so I guess my Dad had held onto it. I would have liked to have been given it, and it feels hurtful to be overlooked. One of our things was going through her extensive collection of costume jewellery together, hence the reason I have some bits and pieces of hers and I have kept hold of the meaningful items even though they are unwearable. To add insult to injury, the ring fits me perfectly but is far too big for R, so now I get to be its caretaker.FiveO'Clock wrote: ↑Fri Jan 27, 2023 4:55 pm What was gifted to R? An opal ring sounds lovely and much better to have something you'll actually wear.
I just feel like the asshole of the story, because I sound like I just want the pretty ring and I can't imagine saying anything without feeling petty/grasping. It's essentially true! I just love it, and I would have appreciated it.
Ironically, my Mum was probably just decluttering and didn't give it much thought.
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Sounds like a good plan!After a big clear out, I've hit a bit of a decluttering wall. I now have two covered baskets, one on the main floor and one in my bedroom and every day I have to take out one thing and make a decision.