IWLTS in 2020...

[Margo]

Oh... have I been too judgy? Sorry

[Blondiejude]

Don’t worry Margo! I probably have a chip on my shoulder to be fair!

[Heebie Jeebie]

I didn't think you were judgy. Just clearly not a cold person.

[Marth]

Judgy? Why.

I thought others were just offering reasons other than being ashamed of being fat, to why a person might have a cardy on?

(sorry for that sentence construction)

[Topcat]

I'm guessing because she does get judged more than most on here.

[sally maclennane]

I'm guessing because she does get judged more than most on here.

But she was asking if she'd been "judgy" as opposed to asking if she was being "judged". They are two different things.

[Topcat]

Its a valid question if you are (rightly or wrongly) judged a lot, I think.

[Turtle Bean]

I often wear cardigans in summer in case I burn. Although that's unlikely in Asda.

[sally maclennane]

Its a valid question if you are (rightly or wrongly) judged a lot, I think.

But that's not what Margo was asking? She was asking (sarcastically I assume from the emoji she used) if she was being judgy? She didn't say "are you all judging me?" Unless you think she was accusing people of judging her
(apparent) judginess?

[Topcat]

Different interpretations, clearly!

I thought she was checking that she wasn't going to be judged for being judgy by making the post.

[sally maclennane]

I am lost now with the all the judging

[Turtle Bean]

I really see no need for this. Are things not bad enough? Margo was kind not judgey and no one said otherwise, a few commented mentioning other potential reasons than weight.

[sally maclennane]

Sorry Bean, you're right.

[Topcat]

Same!

[sally maclennane]

It was TC, miss, he started it

[Turtle Bean]

I should be in charge of more things.

[Topcat]

Yes, do your job.

[indigo]

It is a fair point. I'm always wearing baggy clothes because I'm conscious of my size.

[SunnyMum]

When I'm with my sisters I always wear a cardi and/or a jumper because otherwise they body shame me. I'm slimmer than them. And I always get the "eat more cake" comments. I'm not underweight. But apparently it makes them feel better to criticise me.
Sorry.

[Margo]

Sorry; I just felt so terribly sad for her and assumed it was a body image thing. It didn’t occur to me that she might have been cold because it was absolutely roasting hot outside and it was cooler but not cold in the shop.