We have Claudius, who has a gammy leg, and hobbles around the lawn eating whatever everyone else has dropped.

He is high up in the "cons" column of Letting Moo Go Outside. The collared doves rule the garden though, Eleanor of Acquitaine sits on top of the feeder and flaps at anyone else that tries to use it, including carrion crows twice her size. She also stares in at the kitchen as I have breakfast, tilting her head at me to indicate the feeder needs looking at.
I have sworn to get a man in when I'm ready for a pond, this bout of digging labour has been plenty enough. But I always say that straight after a project and by the time the next one comes round I'm back to gung ho and doing it myself. See also: painting. I forget the pain.

Also my sister is getting a man in to do a load of garden stuff and my god, the cost! I almost offered to do it myself but did not. :))
I haven't searched for garden groups actually, thank you! I have chatted to a few people and am member of all the generalised community groups but didn't think about a specialist one. I was thinking to just put my excess seedlings on a table at the bottom of the drive and put a notice in the general group but a gardening group would be ideal.
I did some of mine too early abs, my indoor lettuce is so leggy because there just wasn't enough light at first, repeat sowings are looking so much better. I am hoping to get my potatoes in next weekend too, and the sweetpeas. I'm just desperate to free up some space. This morning I had to stake my baby courgette with a diffuser reed as it was flopping a bit. :lol:
Your plant moving sounds very pleasing, and I can imagine that moving into a mature garden it takes a good while to get a feel for what's there, how you use the garden and how you want it to look. Even for me in a non mature garden, dividing and moving the grasses/red hot pokers was a big psychological shift towards creating the sort of backbone structure I figured out I wanted after two years of tilting my head this way and that at it.
I had to google red dragon paperbush, it's gorgeous and so unusual.